User blog:Mercuryorhymn/trying to make a new label to fit me

so obligatory intro, i’m mercury or hymn, i use xe/xem, thon/thons, soul/souls, and they/them pronouns.

now onto my main issue. i’m like 90% sure i might be aromantic, more specifically arovague and,,,, something like nebularomantic? (don’t attack me, i’m autistic, i can use these terms)

i feel kinda like nebularomantic, but instead of being unable to differentiate between platonic and romantic attractions, i can’t differentiate between fixual (basically hyperfixation- or special-interest-based attraction) and romantic attraction. so i’m tryna make a term for that ^^

if any help could be given with anything related to said term (name and flag mainly) i’d be eternally grateful!! tysmm!

also apologies for not putting this into a category, i’m on my phone and idk how to