User blog:ThrownawayCoffeeMug/Quick Question!

So I see a gender therapist, and she said that, due to what I feel not matching any gender or label, I should pioneer and coin a gender of my own. However, after reading the links the wiki provided on how to do this, I'm still confused on how to go about doing this. I don't want to offend or weird people out, and I don't know what words to use or how to combine words to create a term. How should I go about doing this?