Talk:Vixenamoric/@comment-2601:82:C380:79B0:F497:A5D9:2F00:2637-20200710042658/@comment-46338500-20200713100430

What people don’t seem to understand is that the reason why non-binary lesbians identify as non-binary lesbians is because they are women aligned non-binary people or unaligned non-binary people (that either feel a connection to womanhood through the label or not) attracted to binary women, other women aligned non-binary people, or unaligned non-binary people. When people tell us to “just use feminamoric or trixic” it feels like a slap in the face. Trixic is not exclusive attraction and includes male aligned non-binary people and can also be used by non-binary people who identify as bisexual/pansexual because it is not an exclusive term. Feminamoric is exclusive attraction, but once again includes male aligned non-binary people and also only means attraction to women. There isn’t an exact term for what non-binary lesbians are trying to go for, trixic and feminamoric don’t fit the description of what we are going for. We identify as lesbian because there isn’t a term that means woman aligned or unaligned non-binary people attracted to woman aligned or unaligned attracted non-binary people and women. That is why we use the term lesbian. I’ve been working on coining a new term for this though so people who are tired of being forced into labels by people who don’t like us can finally have a term to identify as.

Sincerely, a Non-binary lesbian