Thread:Chaoticcylinder/@comment-2A02:C7D:1A85:F600:A808:1949:651C:C4E0-20200728185356/@comment-36040512-20200730202226

Yeah, I  wasn't trying to equate femininity to being AFAB, I was just trying find a to potentially describe it to cis men, even thought it's not really accurate.

As for transphobia I'm not really sure how to deal with that, since I've never really had to deal with that myself. I think it's hard to fully overcome any internalised phobia, but as long as you're aware of it should help. Consuming trans media can also help, however, a lot of trans media is focused on the person being trans. I think in this case it would help to consume media where trans characters are just people. Like, media where a trans women is just seen as a normal women- the fact that she's trans is just a random thing about her, and it isn't really important to the plot. Of course, that sort of media is a lot harder to find (I don't know of any media like that, so I have no recommendations). But the fact that you've been so respectful and are willing to question these beliefs is a good sign.