Talk:He/Him Lesbian/@comment-178.189.246.105-20200514142800/@comment-100.11.12.232-20200519221624

Thank you for being willing to learn, and I am sorry that this triggers and upsets you. No one means this as a mockery of trans men. They do this because they're just the pronouns they like. I think the best way to describe it is like a pair of clothes. Women can wear traditionally men's clothes even though she's a woman. Sure, some women stick with traditionally women's clothes and many men still wear those traditionally men's clothes, but there are no rules saying a woman can't wear traditionally men's clothes or that a man can't wear traditionally women's clothes.

Not everyone who uses he/him pronouns identifies as male. Some non-binary people use he/him pronouns. I also don't think anyone should be telling anyone else that they can't use a certain set of pronouns. I remember someone once saying that language should be used to serve us, not define us.