Talk:He/Him Lesbian/@comment-45.46.194.220-20200512023306

It's sad that people are so against the concept of people who really feel comfortable identifying this way. Sure, there are folks who will use it to try and get lesbian women even though they identify as a man, but there's plenty of people who try to use the LGBT community that way or to gain clout. Refusing to refer to someone by their preferred pronouns and identity when it's completely harmless to do so is just... rude. Plenty of Non-Binary people use he/him pronouns, so they aren't exclusively for men. So maybe some people will use it as an argument against transmen or accidentally mistake one for a he/him lesbian, but there's a lot of people who won't question your gender identity and will go with whatever pronouns you'd like to use (plus if someone does accidentally refer to you as the wrong gender, a gentle correction can help someone who was making an honest mistake not do so in the future). Overall I think the whole discourse is pretty frustrating, and that he/him lesbians are valid, just like anyone else who wants to use he/him pronouns.