User blog comment:Chaoticcylinder/Negative Comments Poll Results/@comment-45665517-20200520021628/@comment-2600:1700:9AF0:4810:21FC:59FB:7339:4C72-20200520214751

I actually agree with those comments, because by saying someone is a he/him lesbian, it's usually assumed (unintentional or not) that the one using he/him is a male, or masc aligned. A lot of arguments say that pronouns aren't gendered, but why do trans people feel dysphoria when wrong pronouns are used. If you (like the anon who replied in the 1st thread) feel way more comfortable identifying with masculine aligned things, or even presenting as a male, there is no right to call yourself a lesbian. It not only takes away society's respect to trans people, but, it also lowers their respect to lesbians too. Lesbian is WOMEN who like WOMEN. If you're a he/him lesbian, it usually comes off as a someone who wants to be a special snowflake. You can easily say you're gnc and like women, but saying youre masc aligned and lesbian, when that would usually just be viewed as a q*eer or straight passing relationship isn't really respectful to the rest of the community who just want to live life normally and not make up a million other genders and identities. I'm not trying to be rude or offensive in any way, I'm just trying to show why some lgbt people don't agree with he/him lesbians. (I'm nblw so pls don't come for me-)