Thread:Chaoticcylinder/@comment-2A02:C7D:1A85:F600:A808:1949:651C:C4E0-20200728185356

Hi  Simon,  I'm  the  creator  of  the  dulcesexual  page  which  got  deleted.

I'm  a  bit  confused  as  to  why  it  was  labelled  as  transphobic  and  why  it  was  deleted  in  general. I'm  assuming  it's  the  reference  to  'female'. I  created  the  term  so   that  afab  people  could  have  a  word  to  describe  their  attraction  without  excluding  nb  people  or  trans  women  from lesbianism  (which  is  the  established  sexual  orientation  most  similar  to  dulcesexuality),  and  to  make a  new version of lesbianism (I'm  not  sure  how  else  to  explain  it)  which  includes  trans  men  and  dysphoric  female  people  who  might  not  be  cis.

I've  gone through  every  sexuality  listed  on  this  site  and  nothing  describes  my  sexuality  as  an  afab  girl  who  likes  other afab  people. I'm  not  trying  to  hate  on  anybody,  I'm  just  trying  to  express  myself,  not  to  contribute  to  any  discourse  or  cruelty. I  previously  identified  as  a  lesbian  but  i'm  not  interested  in  amab  people,  even  those  who  have  medically  transitioned. My  sexuality  is  based  on  sex,  and  some  people's  sexualities  are  not,  but  mine  is  and  I  wanted  to  try and  reach  out  to  like-minded  people,  because  atm  only  radfems  and  conservatives  recognise  an  afab4afab  sexuality  (afab4afab  lesbianism)  which  isn't  really  that  great.

I'm  losing  faith  in  the  LGBT  community tbh  because  there  are  many  labels  but  not  one  for  people  like  me  which  isn't controversial or upsetting  to others,  and  I'm  trying  not  to  step  on  anybody's  toes  but  nothing  is  working. I  think  that  young  afab4afab  people  deserve  a  space  and  a  name  and  I  don't  think  saying  so  should  be  considered  rude  or  mean  or  anything  else  because  our  intentions  are  good.

If  you  read  this  until  the  end  thank  you  for  your  time. 