Thread:Chaoticcylinder/@comment-2A02:C7D:1A85:F600:A808:1949:651C:C4E0-20200728185356/@comment-36040512-20200728194050

I know you're intentions are good, but the reason why only radfems  and  conservatives use AGAB attraction is because, literally any form of attraction based on AGAB is transphobic. You're basically telling trans men and AFAB non-binary people that you see them as being no different from cis women and that they will "always actually be women". You're also telling trans women that they will never be the same as "real" women.

Also, how are you suppose to tell who's AFAB as a glance? What about people who have fully transitioned? What about trans people who have had sex reassignment surgery so that's impossible to know if they're trans unless they tell you. If you aren't attracted to a feminine appearance, and it isn't a genital preferance then what exactly are you attracted to? Are you attracted to the concept of them being female at some point? It seem extremely fetishizing. It would be really offensive to tell a trans man or a NB person that you're only attracted to them because they're "biologically female", especially since most of those people hate the fact that they're AFAB and want nothing more than to not be assoiated with their AGAB.

Lastly, you keep calling it "an new form of lesbianism" which it cannot be because lesbianism is only for women and you are including men in this label.

I don't mean to cause offence, you seem nice, but please consider why you feel this way, because it seems like some form of unintentional, but deeply ingrained transphobia.