Talk:He/Him Lesbian/@comment-107.140.44.123-20200722052350

makes the community look like a joke :( im lesbian and he/him lesbians just sound like straight men or ppl who want to use terms that dont belong to them. since the definition of this is "a woman who feels disconnected from womanhood because of attraction to women or being gnc" implies that you're not a real woman if you're a lesbian or if you dont live up to society's expectation of a woman. also, lesbians would use he/him pronouns to avoid being killed or prosecuted for liking women, so when you identify this it makes it look like your romanticizing or taking light of the struggles of lesbians back in the day. so unless you're in a situation where you need to use masculine pronouns to avoid getting prosecuted, you're being highly offensive. last thing, if you're nonbinary and you're identifying as a lesbian, you're kinda contradicting your identity. you're sticking a nonbinary term right next to a binary one, which makes no sense. please yall, there's terms like feminamoric and trixic for you guys to use, leave lesbian alone.

(also, this reduces the definition of lesbian down to nonmen attracted to nonmen, which is not true. like i said, there's feminamoric and trixic. identifying as lesbian is not the way to go. and before you say i dont have an opinion on this because im a cis lesbian, i do because im lgbt and this is an lgbt topic)