User blog:SixSaltines/may i get some help regarding my identity? pls?

gender is being complicated :[

i like the label unlabeled as i feel i cant really put a proper label on my gender, i mean i know my gender has some xenic elements to it and some fem elements and some masc elements and i was wondering if their was some sort of way where i could specify that i am in fact not cis and have xenic, fem, and masc aspects of myself but where i could still remain unlabeled. as in... i can tell people the aspects of my gender but not have to specify exactly what my gender is- like i can be like oh my gender is this this and that but i prefer not to put specific labels on my gender- i guess im just a bit scared that this might invalidate my unlabeled label or smth like that?

i hope this post made at least a bit of sense and remember you're loved, valid and important :D