User blog:Disaster lesbian11/I think I am agender. Can somebody help

I started to question my gender not long ago, maybe 2 or 3 months ago because i felt the term girl didn't fit me. I liked the term agender because when I got myself more into figuring out my gender, it kinda felt like I just didn't have a gender, and that I didn't want to be seen as a girl, boy or an enby, but just me.

But the thing is that ive never really thought about my gender before this, it has never really occured to me that I could be anything else than a girl. Unlike a lot of other trans/enby people that i have read about/talked with, Ive never had a big problem being grouped with girls at school or going to the womens bathroom. I also love presenting feminine and wearing dresses, but I guess that doesn't really have anything to say for my gender identity.

I have never had serious dysphoria either (maybe because my chest is natrually small), but idk if it is common for agender people to have dysphoria or not.

And lately, i have started to question what gender even means, I just can't really get a grasp on it. Like, what is gender?

So if any enby/agender people would like to tell me how they figured out they were agender/non binary and how you experience gender/ what the term 'gender' means to you, I would be really happy

And I have one more question btw. Can agenders identify with xenogenders?

Ok, have a good morning/day/evening/night everyone!

(Sorry if my writing is messy or bad, english is not my first language)