User blog comment:PokemonRay66/I need advice.../@comment-46005779-20200803015444

Hi I’m trans- specifically non-binary

I can tell you’re trying but it’s iffy to call it a “decision” because that implies it’s a choice he made to be trans, which it’s not, and if he’s a trans boy it’s important to understand he was never a girl. Maybe he wasn’t out, or he didn’t realize until recently, but it’s important to understand that he’s not “changing from a girl to a boy”, this is just who he is. For example, I’m non-binary, but I was assigned female at birth. Even though I assumed I was a girl before, now I know that’s just not who I am. Who I am didn’t change, I just gained a better understanding of it and realized who I truly was. Hope this helps!

Honestly just try your best to use his correct name/pronouns, it’s not a big deal if you mess up! Just correct yourself and move on ^^ you’ve got this!