So I identify currently as lesbian aroace, but I am not sure if what I am feeling fits under this umbrella.
I want to form strong relationships with girls I know well, but I never really wanted to have a strong friendship with boys. I only really want to get to know people better when I know and trust them already, and then I have an urge to get to know them.
I have never looked at someone and thought something along the lines of 'they look hot' or anything, and when someone asked me out once I completely panicked and knew I didn't want to, but I just wanted to be close friends. I couldn't deal with it. Is this just my responsibility issues? I have never felt romantic attraction tho so...
Yeah, I'm confused, but I'm happy. It would be nice to find other people experiencing the same thing as me and to find out an accurarate 'label'.