First off. i used to think i was a trans man until around June. i then identified as genderfluid and used he/they pronouns. i then only used they/them pronouns and was non-binary. then i was agender and used xe/xem pronouns. i was content with not knowing my gender until now. it's not sitting right with me that i don't have a label for it. i feel in between non-binary and male. sometimes i feel more masculine than others but it's usually a little bit more. i looked at boyflux, greygender, libragender, and demiboy. i don't feel like being fluid fits me. i'm just not comfortable with it because i feel like it's too much work for my supportive friends. i looked through a lot of other genders than the ones i listed and none of them seem to speak to me. do you have any ideas?