Hey everyone! So I think I’ve figured my gender and sexuality out, or at least I hope I have!
I couldn’t stop questioning for months, this started all the way back in May. It really frustrated me and I was about to just use quoigender and quoiromantic/quoisexual, but I kept looking around this wiki and the Gender Wiki and I think I’ve got it.
Gender: Bigender (genderfluid and pangender)
My gender is what confused me the most. I felt like every gender at the same time, but also like one gender more than the others (and that gender would change)? For example: One day I’d feel like every gender possible, but I’d feel like a guy more. The next day I’d still feel like everything but like a girl more. Confused the hell outta me. But now I’m pangender and genderfluid (with some xenogenders on the side)!
Sexuality/Romantic Orientation: Graysexual and bi
I thought I was completely ace for the longest time, until I saw this one guy and that kinda have me an existential crisis until I remembered graysexual. I experience sexual attraction but rarely and it’s kinda weak when I do. I also thought I was aromantic but I just hadn’t had a crush yet. I’m attracted to guys, gals, and nb pals so I’m bi. It’s the label I’m most comfortable with (plus the flag is amazing).
So there you have it! I’m pretty sure I’ve figured it out now. Let’s hope that doesn’t change again! 😅