I really and truly though that I was lesbian, because most of my my sexual attraction had been towards women, and most of the sexual relationships I'd participated in had been with women or women-aligned people. I also generally preferred a women's genitals when in a sexual relationship. That is, up until now.
I'm finding myself feeling attracted to other genders. It started when I felt sexual attraction to a man. Then other genders. I'm still mostly attracted to women, but also to other genders. I wish I could just walk around calling myself lesbian like I used to, but now that I'm attracted to other genders it's getting increasingly difficult, and the term "lesbian" is now making me kind of uncomfortable.
I've investigated the term "sapphic" and I'm going around as that for now. But what I was really wondering if there's a sexuality where you're attracted to multiple genders but mostly one. I feel like if there was a term for that it would really help me feel comfortable with labels.
Could someone help, please? I'm kind of in a sexuality crisis, and I never imagined something like this happening. I want to coin my own term for it, but if there's already a term then I'm not going to make my own.