Personally, I looked through many of the articles in this wiki until I found something that fit. Even I'm not sure if it's the end of my questioning, and that's alright. It's going to take time, you're going to get confused sometimes, you might find things that seem to fit and don't later. I recommend going through various wiki articles and seeing if any of them fit you. If you find one and you're not entirely sure, ask yourself: Does this feel right? Is this me? Would I be comfortable if people saw me as this? Try to stay true to yourself and not what others think you should be.