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Thank you, and I hope my advice helped!
Big loud sudden noises i hate them with everything in me bc they scare me to death (tw) and raising a hand acting like you're going to hit me that terrifies me too
Before anyone says anything, just because.
A couple years ago, I found this great way off sort of letting go of your sadness. Go to your room, close the door, dim the lights, and play a sad song. Preferably one that you know by heart. Then, sing along, hum along to it. If you feel like crying, cry. You're human. I usually do, and I'm 15.
Good Songs to listen to if you do this, if you're stuck on some songs:
-The Moss, by Cosmo Sheldrake
-Losing My Religion, by R.E.M.
-Space Oddity, by David Bowie
-False Alarms, by Noah Reid
-Say Something, by A Great Big World
@Sommersd24 IF you hear a sudden, loud noise, and you're scared, then it's ok, everyone's afraid of something. If it's just a sudden jolt of fear, it's ok, just calm yourself. If you keep having this fear for minutes afterward that something's gonna fall or collapse, then try playing sounds of a river or creek on a phone. Sit in a beanbag or a couch, or on your bed, and just contemplate.
If someone raises their hand aggresively, tell them not to do it again. If you think they're going to hit you, take a step back. You're probably fine. If not just try looking in the mirror and doing the same movement over and over again so you might get used to it.
That's my advice, tell me if it works!
There are literally no doors in the house other then the doors leading out of the house and bathroom doors my mom says i don't deserve a door -_-
Oof! Just tell your mom not to bother you for a bit. And yeah, my friend has an apartment with no doors, he says it's pretty annoying.
When i hear sudden loud sounds screaming yelling or arguing i start to shake really bad and i don't feel safe whats so ever when it happens even after i know no one is going to hurt me i don't like people touching me bc of really bad things that happened in the past people so much as raise their voice at me i get scared if someone tries to touch me without me knowing i end up hitting them bc its a habit i developed bc of shit like being harassed and abused and it sucks
My parents are Qeerphobic as flip
@Sommersd24 I think that the solution here is get a cat or dog, or even a birb. Tell your parents/guardians about how you feel unsafe. A pet is known to be relaxing, and it's Proven By Science that having a pet reduces stress levels. If you hit someone, tell them you're sorry and explain.
@Wings of fire202 Yikes. My best advice here is to wait it out, very subtly start talking about it. "Oh, I saw this movie", or "I read this book the other day", and then they'll start getting more used to it. Come out when you're ready to come out. Your friend Yoyo only told our parents about his first boyfriend a couple months ago, around the summer where he met him at summer camp.
My parents would turn on PARENTAL-CONTROLS but I’ve been trying that,
Evidence of Qeerphobia possible transphobia:”your a girl Moss you can’t change gender this is just a fictional character”
Well that STUNG like killer bees
I don't have very much particular advice, but I will tell you about my friend. He was labeled as a girl at birth, but he felt like a boy, but he never told ANYONE until he was ten. He got this amazing pfp drawn for him by a friend who supported him. He changed that to his contact photo, and too late realised that the transgender flag in the back was a dead giveaway to the whole group chat he was on. Everyone asked him, and he admitted feeling like a boy. No one got mad at him, and no one told any adults. In the end, he told his parents who were furious at first, but they loved him, because he was their child, so they just kind of awkwardly accepted it.
I think you have to be straight up about it, and find the right time. Don't randomly bust open your front door on the way home from school and scream, "I'm bi," or trans, or anything you wanna be because you are YOU. Be smart about it. I'm sure your parents will eventually realize how amazing you are.
What do you think?