Sorry guys, i was in a terrible mood and wanted to make people unhappy. i don't expect forgiveness, but i want to say sorry.
Sorry guys, i was in a terrible mood and wanted to make people unhappy. i don't expect forgiveness, but i want to say sorry.
I think a lot of people misunderstand aspec people, so if you're frustrated about this or it's upsetting or even triggering, that's valid, but I personally think it would be better to self-assess before potentially invalidating someone. I'm not angry with you at all, I'm sorry for whatever happened that caused you to be so upset by this, I just think this discourse is definitely worth having. @Transgender Cat made some good points as well, I think we all just need to learn how to be accepting of things that aren't harming us even if we don't understand, after all, that is the premise of our community. I hope you're feeling more relaxed now.
@Rainbowraven96 YES
THANK YOU!! People who use microlabels don’t hurt anyone! People who ACTUALLY hurt the community is LGBTphobes!
And yes, I have a friend who now identify a as panthagender, kits absolutely did not like identifying as catgender, kit always said caterer just felt to small and nimble, kit can’t really connect with that gender with kitselves. So I coined panthagender and the felinus system as well as Envy and kits are happier than ever. That’s why I don’t believe these microlabels hurt anyone, you may not get it, but that doesn’t mean it hurts anyone instantly.
Off topic but
SOMEONE IS USING A TERM I COINED. (Panthagender) AHH :D
Didn’t we explicitly state that we do not accept pedophiles/Zoophilia/etc
Lmao so snowy can be renairysexual and be valid?
Snowy can have an attraction to the musical artist renairy?
When i read this post it truly hurt me .... Like i cannot express the emotion im feeling rn, i feel invalidated, and feel like me using a microlabel isnt valid-
I'm glad kits are happier with kitselves now! And yes I agree, as long as people are finding themselves authentically without actually hurting and mocking anyone else, then it's our job to put aside our own personal interpretation of their identity and respect them
We are on the road to accepting them because of all of the harmful microlabels are already validating them, under the radar.
Yes snowy! You can identify as that and be attracted to exclusively that and be valid!!
a sexuality based off of an attraction to a single person is not a valid sexuality in itself. you may be unisexual or proculsexual and be valid, though. This does feel a bit mocking, we should have a civil, respectful conversation, and stay serious.
What do you think?