Edited by moderator to avoid triggers. questions are answered in thread.
Edited by moderator to avoid triggers. questions are answered in thread.
Such as?
You had said it was a kink/whatever, which it wasn't. We are trying to educate you.
@ElAmos Sure, you can ask here or on my message wall since people are replying a lot over here
It's alright if you want to know more about them, but you explicitly stated that people with xenogenders have mental illnesses and argued with those trying to educate you. By the way, free speech does not include hate speech.
But, I will say you did call it a "kink" and "mental problems" I can see why it was removed, some people come here as a safe space from that so that can be triggering to someone, just a heads up
Its based off experience. As beings, when we dont understand things, we search for answers, and labels. Xenogenders are labels we give ourselves to explain feelings.
Such as panicgender
As a person who has Autisim its kinda triggering hearing you say that people who use xenogenders have a mental illness
They would experience a different gender or no feeling of gender if they were to have a panic attack! @ElAmos
Gonna copy and paste my old explanations to xenogenders.
"Alright, so, hear me out.
If you were to ask a woman how her gender feels, and ask her to describe it, she may say 'it feels pink, passionate, and powerful' when another woman may respond 'it feels compassionate, shy, and meek'. If we were to remove the common gender roles we associate with being a woman, we would think those descriptions sound silly.
Another thing to keep in mind, is gender effects our emotions, and emotions effects our gender, doesnt it? and emotions can be described in many ways.
Anger - hot, red, boiling
Sadness -aching, blue, cold
Happiness -bright, sunny, warm
Etc.
So for some, cant gender feel the same way? You also have to remember different aesthetics and clothes identify with people, and make their gender feel stronger and more valid. Examples include skirts, the color blue, certain hairstyles, etc.
Its like how gender can effect hobbies, how some women can feel validated by joining ballet, or cooking, or the color pink. And if genders are tied to emotions, and emotions are tied to genders, the genders we feel can indeed feel 'angry' or 'sad' or 'happy' to people, just because thats the best way to describe it for them.
Next, lets bring a whole other aspect to it- Nuerogenders. Nuerodivergent people experience life in different ways, do they not? so whos to say they dont experience gender in different ways? This doesnt apply for all nuerodivergent people, but it does for some.
So when people say xenogenders are silly, we have to strip down what society has already taught us about genders to realize its not as stupid as it may come off."
What do you think?