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Gender: an experience highly tied to ones emotions
Xenogender: a gender descriptor.
Pronouns: a way to refer to someone. some people use pronouns that 'dont match' their gender because pronouns and gender are two different concepts. pronouns are quite literally just a replacement for ones name.
Presentation: how one dresses.
Sexuality: sexual attraction to a gender/multiple genders.
Romantic orientation: romantic attraction to a gender/multiple genders.
Sometimes these are linked, sometimes they are not. A man might wear feminine clothes but still be a man. a man might be masculine and be gay. a woman might use they/them but be cisgender. it all depends on the person.