But I need to make sure it doesn’t exist already:
I’m thinking about calling it Rogavo (from Latin “I ask”). It’s an identity that is always or often in a state of questioning, despite always getting the same answer. This could be due to:
a fluid/flux identity that always/often feels like the current identity being experienced is the final one
Fluid/flux identity that when feeling cis/het/allo they think they were faking
Anxiety or a related disorder making the person feel like they’ve been faking and/or always trying to make sure they weren’t just in case
A person who has had past trauma, experience, upbringing/religion, etc. who feels like they’re not real, trying to get attention, etc.