Tw; drama, censored cussing
Im gonna take a break. I can't understand what people want from me. I'm doing what i can.
Mods here really seem to be talked down to a lot. I'm sorry, but its true, and it really bothers me. I'm not talking about right now, you guys have been generally nice, i just mean on this wiki in general.
I have to delete comments daily from queerphobes, have to be messaged by said queerphobes and harassed, and have to tell people why something isn't 'mocking the LGBT+ community'.
If you have an issue with xenogenders, talking about it is okay. Whats not okay is openly stating that they are invalid, and making the people who identify with them feel like sh*t. It doesnt feel nice having people tell me i'm invalid for describing my gender through cat-related metaphors, especially when thats the only way i could describe it to myself.
The post was locked for someone outwardly calling people invalid. Thats literally making people uncomfortable and sad in their identities. Even if its civil, its not respectful to someones identity to say they are mocking the community just for describing themselves or using a microlabel. We locked it so it wouldn't get heated.
We also locked it because discussions on 'is _ valid' are very harmful, especially when speaking of microlabels.
I love you guys. If you need help, talk to someone. I care. I just can't handle people being upset with me for locking a post that could (and did) make people uncomfortable.
If you need mental or emotional support, see my post here.
Love you. I dont know when i'll be back. I'll still be editing pages and such, but i just...I can't deal with this. I am trying my best to help this community and help people understand themselves better, and i feel looked down on.
-Weniviere