I do agree, don’t self diagnose! It causes more harm than good, you can say “I think i might have ____...” but never say that you actually do if you haven’t been diagnosed by a profesional.
But tone indicators are very important for some people.
+ I do agree, neopronouns and xenogenders can be hard to understand but it doesn’t hurt to try using their pronouns.
Also, idk if this post was a joke¿ I’m sorry if I sounded rude, hope you have a good day :D