I'm Pansexual, but I prefer girls, and people are telling me I can't like one gender more than others because I'm pan, so now I just don't know, because I've thought I'm pan since I was like, 8, and now I just feel like I can't been, so I'm very sad, but I do mainly like people because of their personality, and I'm just so confused, and sad because I've already tried to force myself to be completely gender blind, and I can't, and I'm sad.