I don't want hugs, I don't want to shake their hands, physical contact irks me. I DON'T CONSENT, but I have to do stuff like that anyway because "I'll leave him hanging".
I don't want birthdays, because they draw unwanted attention to me, and I don't want that attention. Apparently I'm "selfish" because I'm "taking that away from them".
Fuck, you're the selfish ones because you don't even consider my feelings, only yours. I can't take these assholes anymore.
I can't even be aroace, because "You'll never know what life brings you" and "You may find someone one day" and don't even get me started with "Your relationship may be the most lovely and strongest since you aren't looking for one".
They are conservative christians, so go fig.