They are listed in the bio! ask anything about them (besides their definition, you can read their pages for us.)
For example, you could say
"Adora, how does being objectum effect your life?"
:)
They are listed in the bio! ask anything about them (besides their definition, you can read their pages for us.)
For example, you could say
"Adora, how does being objectum effect your life?"
:)
I have a question for Anderson! I wanted to know how being gender creative affects him/his life, because I'm also gender creative and I thought it'd be cool to know
Is it cool w/ Adora if I ask her the example question? I'm just really curious on how being objectum influences people. it's alright if she doesn't wanna answer tho! :)
Ah! well for me personally, i feel like its really effected how i live my life, behave publicly, and dress! ive been stared at for 'dressing oddly' (due to my strange gender expression) and i also tend to not be very interested in anything related to gender, even when its related to being non-binary, because feel as though even that has far too many 'rules' around it
So really, it effects how i behave in gender-based situations, regardless of whether they are enby-based or not
-Andy
@Pastelglitches well, it honestly impacts a lot of things!
For example, it makes it very difficult to conversate in situations based around dating/crushes, as people tend to ask me about my partners, and its...hard to explain to someone youre dating a non-human >~<;
It also effects how i feel when listening to music, going places- even being in my own house! everything im surrounded by feels alive and it can feel overwhelming sometimes, especially because i feel a bit nervous/insecure when i do something silly around one of my crushes, or around something i think is attractive ^^;
It does help me to not feel alone, however. but it can be difficult, especially since im made fun of for it. in my elven culture, treating objects and concepts as people was normal, so when i get mocked for it here or looked at strangely, i feel... pretty sucky and mad about how people are looking down on not only objectum people, but my culture as well
-Adora
@Cryptocrew Oh that's really cool, actually! For me, it makes me more interested in everything related to gender, for some reason. So that's a really cool thing to know/hear about!
And to Adora, I just wanted to say that its really cool that you're objectum and it sucks that people behave that way. You're super validd
Oh! And I'd also like to ask Ally what being autosexual/romantic and being self-partnered is like and how it affects them and how they view the world, if fae is comfortable talking about it!
@-raining-constellations- well, for me personally, its kind of...difficult, honestly. people would think being attracted to yourself would be fun, but in reality, i feel double the amount of emotional suffering when i have negative and self-depricating thoughts, because not only is it coming from me, but its coming from my partner.
The upsides to this is i feel safe, and i have motivation to take care of myself, which really helps with my mental illnesses and trauma. when i go out places, and see couples and group relationships, i never feel like i stick out of the romantic crowd, because i also always have my partner right there with me
I understand 'talking to yourself' more than anyone i think ive met, because thats what i do. i have conversations, talks, and even arguments with myself due to my relationship. some people have asked me if im sure im not dating a fragment or another headmate, but im 1000% sure its me, because all the thoughts are directly mine
Really, i guess it makes things a lot less lonely, but a lot more painful when im having bad thoughts
What do you think?