Hey-o!
I'm just looking for advice on something, if it's okay;
I've had some... how to put it... ig troubles in the past concerning who I am as a person, and even more so when it comes to opening up to other people about it. Plus I've recently gotten tired of people just assuming who I am when I myself am still stuck trying to figure that out. So I'm gonna do this... stick my foot forward and ask for some words of wisdom...
So basically (sorry if I'm beating around the bush here, I suck at explaining things sometimes), I believe I may identify as demisexual... I do experience sexual attraction to people, but only after I've known them for a long time and gotten to know them (e.g. a "long time" being at least a couple months). I only have had crushes in the past for people who had been my friends for like, forever.
I guess a better way to explain this is like; when I am invited to a party with some of my friends and they try to push me to go "meet someone" to *cough* you know.... I don't feel like... doing that. Like I'm the kind of person who absolutely does not want to commit to any sexual acts until we are in a long-term relationship and we genuinely love eachother. Like, I can't stand the thought of having a "one night stand" because there's just... no love in that.
So... is demisexual the right term I'm looking for?