Next Lesbian page that's made is getting renamed to Monosexual Lesbian and locked. Thoughts?
Next Lesbian page that's made is getting renamed to Monosexual Lesbian and locked. Thoughts?
Non-binary/neutral-alinged here, and it does. /srs
-Sapnap
TW: Exorsexism
This definition does not imply or assume that non-binary people cannot be men or masc-aligned.
The fact is many non-binary people do not identify as men so allowing these people to call themselves 'non-men' is not putting nonbinary people in general into a binary. I myself am nonbinary and disagree entirely with this assertion.
If someone doesn't consider themselves a 'non-man' this is totally fine but doesn't make this definition discrimination (by the definition of exorsexism written in this very wikia).
Anything else you'd like to say?
TW: Misgendering
Multiple nonbinary people here, including ourselves, a system comprised of multiple nonbinary headmates are telling you that calling us non-men is misgendering. What's not clicking?
Wlw/Nblw/nblnb works just just fine without assuming anyone's gender.
My opinion but "non-men" has always been exclusive term to me, like it sounds like you all are excluding male-alinged and trans men in this case where trans men with connection to womenhood. /srs /g
-Sapnap
If you don't Id with that term it's totally fine, but doesn't make non-man problematic or mean that I shouldn't use it for myself and others who identify with it.
I wasn't even talking about you fam.
Using it in a generalized fashion is the problem.
Yes Musephile, trans men are men so are excluded by the phrase 'non-men'. This is not a bad thing. Most sexualities have rules which exclude some genders and this is fine.
NMLNM is the most inclusive way of saying lesbians can be nonbinary but not men. Saying trans men can be lesbians is highly controversial to both trans men and lesbians.
If you personally don't like the term non-men that's valid but doesn't mean lesbians should stop defining themselves in this way.
What do you think?