Put descriptions of identities in the comments and i'll see if i can guess the name :)
A gender on the neutral spectrum that is connected to both femininity and masculinity.
An umbrella term for anyone with multiple gender identities that are normally blurred together, but occasionally separate from one another and the person can tell which gender(s) are most prominent during that specific "split," if any.
@A non-binary cat who likes piano stellarian?
What do you think?