It looks like the difference is supposed to be that toro folk experience flexible attraction towards women. Toroflexible folk are attracted to men, non-binary folk, and (rarely) women, but they also experience flexible attraction to other genders. /gen
We can't tell if ya'll are just scouring the internet or if you've left the game. If everyone's left (or wants to leave) that's understandable and fine, we won't be hurt. /gen
Also we don't want to be hovering over our computer for the next hour when no one's on the discussion /lh /hj