Tw: caps, family . . Are we allowed to swear on here?? im just gonna replace swears with frick or crap or something?? pronouns are so fricking,,, hard, for me, not other peoples, i have no problem with other peoples pronouns, its mine that's the problem. I know i'm fine with they/them pronouns and i know i hate she/her pronouns, its just he/him pronouns that are the problem i want to use they/he pronouns but i dont wanna be mainly called a he (i just fricking know theres gonna be SOMEONE that will ONLY call me a he) i w a n t to use they/he pronouns but i dont want people to assume im male, im nonbinary (even if sometimes im a demiboy, im ALWAYS nonbinary and dont want to ever be seen as male) i know pronouns dont equal gender but not everyone thinks that way, so i know someone is gonna assume im male, someone is gonna call me a male, and i dont want that, i want to use they/he pronouns but i alsowant to use they/them pronouns instead cause it'd be easier for me, because i wouldnt have to deal with more stress of getting called a male or my family being even more hecking crappy ??? they cant even call me a THEY, it's gonna be so,,, ANNOYING having to deal with them struggle to even call me a he?? knowing them they'll just pick he pronouns over they/them pronouns cause its "easier", or more "convenient for them", they're just gonna be like "are you a boy now" even though im not??? I w a n t to use they/him pronouns but i don't wanna deal with the stress that's gonna come along with it, i want to use they/he pronouns, i just want to happily use the pronouns i want to use but i cant because i am already so fricking stressed about everything in my life and i dont wanna deal with anymore stress