Tw: mentions of triggers and being triggered
If a user hasn't said they're okay with it, don't ask them about their triggers. That information is not important to you. Users aren't required to share that information with you, and you shouldn't expect them to.
And, if for whatever reason you do ask someone about their triggers, try not to directly mention it, especially if it's one specific word/phrase/name etc. that triggers them. And, if you can, censor it.
It's likely that you'll end up triggering them if you randomly leave a message on their wall, asking them why they have a certain trigger, without censoring it or anything. So just don't, there's no reason to.
/srs /lu /nav