man, i want to agree with you, but this tiny little semi-sane part of my brain physically wont let me. /lh
also, being serious for a second, its okay that you dont know how to help. i just havent felt like this in a while and so i think my brains response sas just to go into panic mode and literally give me hell. but ill be fine :) and if you do come up with cooing mechanisms, you can message us. ill& be very grateful /g
-remus