Everyone has their own experience in regards to how they identity theirself,,,,,,someone else’s identity doesn’t suddenly make YOUR identity invalid,,,,,,example, a woman using he/him pronouns isn’t invalidating trans men,,,,,,,or a non binary person using lesbian/gay isn’t invalidating non binary people who prefer to use diamoric labels,,,,,,someone using a combination of labels might seem contradictory at first, but they’re only using those terms to describe THEIR experience with gender and sexuality, not YOURS,,,,,,you have to stop pushing YOUR experience onto other people,,,,,no two people are the exact same, let people figure themselves out and use the labels that best describe THEM, it has nothing to do with you OR your identity,,,,,,”but-but woman using MASCULINE pronouns makes transphobes think it’s okay to misgender trans men-“ nope,,,,,transphobes will look for ANY excuse, same with TERFs,,,,,,stop trying to appease to someone who will hate us regardless of what we do,,,,,,even if we lick their f**king boots,,,,,,they’re still gonna treat us like sh*t and try to take away our rights,,,,,and not just our rights, but the stability and safety of our community,,,,,,do better for yourselves and others,,,,,,,