I want to keep my visible hairy legs or at least see how I feel with wearing shorts, skirts or showing them a little bit.
I want to say this to my mom but I feel she will not accept or support me. this is because in the past i’ve said “I like girls too” (I’m Omnisexual) but my mom tells me “you’re too young to say if you like girls” which I feel is kinda ridiculous because I said that when I was 14 and i’ve turned 15 recently.
She has also been talking to me about shaving and how it’ll make me feel better about myself, Even has said to me that “ladies should never be hairy” which I know isn’t right at all, any one can be hairy or not. it’s natural.
My mom doesn’t think there are other genders in the LGBTQIA+. She herself said that she only believes “Man and Woman” are the only genders.
I’ve suggested or i’m giving hints to me not feeling like a girl but not saying what gender(s) I’ve felt and am. She says there are “influences” which that could be partly true but honestly i’ve felt I wasn’t a girl for so long and only in last june i’ve been looking a bit deeper into myself (Gender, Sexuality and Romantic) and I know that I am not a “Woman/Girl”
I really dislike how she calls me a “young lady” or that “you’re becoming a young woman” and says that i’d like makeup (which i heavily do not, i like it a bit but i’m not fully into it and prefer not to wear any makeup)
I also asked her “If i wore a mensuit what would you think?” she got silent for a bit then asked “why not a ladysuit?” and i replied “well i mean like what if i just tried a mensuit?” and she seemed to have like felt off about that. didn’t answer the question either.
Overall I don’t know how my mom will react if I say i want to keep my legs hairy, that I am not a Girl and about my sexuality.
i’ve only told my best friend about these things.
I don’t think I can say or tell any of my family but i’ve been considering my dad to tell him. not sure though.